Kink is supposed to be a realm where you can safely and consensually express the desires from the deepest parts of your subconscious

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For as long as I can remember, certain sexual acts were deemed "freaky white people shit" by the vast majority of my black female friends. We would grow up to find that not only was this complete and utter bullshit, but also wonder how that stereotype started in the first place. The more I followed sex-positive black women on social media in my mid-20s, the more curious I became about kink and everything it meant. I started to wonder about my boundaries and limits when it came to sex.

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